Talk to Fa

Play outside in the sun Come home before it gets dark Cook a delicious, healthy meal Take a long bath with candles on And sleep for 9 hours.

We are all connected.

We are either leaders or followers. Creators or consumers. Stars or fans. Rulers or servants. Neither is superior to the other. Both are vital for the holistic balance and harmony of the world, and so is knowing our place in this lifetime.

He was in a coma after a gnarly collision. He had a dream. A big arch stretched over a tree. Beneath the tree was a water paddle. He looked into the water but didn’t see his face in the reflection. A voice told him it wasn’t his time to go yet. He woke up and came back to life.

#dreams #stories

I’m ready, let’s gooooooo!

You're not even at home with yourself. Why would anyone want to come home to you?

Air to my fire. Air completes the elements of nature: earth, water, wind, and fire. Air is formless. You can only feel it, yet it’s there, powerfully and unpredictably stirring and shifting things. Today, I felt the undeniable presence of a greater-than-life force through the big, big winds. They were alive. They were a message from the divine. I opened my suntanned arms and accepted the message. Thank you, I said.

Once, I was talking to someone I was seeing. He brought up a topic I was interested in but wasn’t very familiar with. I was honest and comfortable about my lack of knowledge. He then said to me, “You should know this,” in a sarcastic tone. How condescending, I thought. Maybe he put me on a pedestal in some way and was disappointed by the unrealistic expectation he had of me. But I believe we have friends and encounters because they come and teach us new things, and I like learning in real life from real people. I am not at all embarrassed by my ignorance. Later, with some time, I realized maybe it was he who had felt pressured to be competent his whole life. I was reflecting his shadow back to him. Whether with this man or others, I often experience people projecting themselves onto me. Usually, they are men. It’s really fucking annoying, but I doubt this will stop happening to me. It is part of my destiny and purpose. Although I used to feel hurt by these unwanted projections, I now understand it’s not about me, but about them. I also know these people will never be the same. Crossing paths with me is a life-changing event. I hope they are healing.